Hi again!
Yes I know you are thinking this girl has gone mad! She thinks fights are good! How is that possible :P
But you know if you ask me.. I think sometimes fights are good..
You know when you have any relationship.. not particularly girlfriend boyfriend.. but any relationship for that matter.. you basically are sharing some part of your life through that relationship; you are sharing some part of yourself through that relationship..isn't it amazing how relationships can bring two strangers together! :D
Anyways, coming back to the topic, so yeah relationships do impact your life and who you evolve into in a big way!
If i see it, a relationship is a bonding between people with different thoughts and different mind set.. as we can be sure even identical twins don't have the same nature and thought process so yes! Two people are not exactly same! And because of the same reason i guess it is important to understand how the other person thinks, responds, feels...It gives a depth to relationships :)
And when you think about understanding the thought process I guess most of the times when we stay happy with other people, we are not exactly being ourselves.. literally! like there is always a part of us who is faking in some way or the other just to make the other person happy or what so ever the reason be :P
But when you have fights and all the truth comes out.. you get mad and unhappy and sad and literally think OMG! Why the hell am I in this relationship! Why me everytime! etc etc
You sleep over it.. you eat over it.. no matter how hard you may try still you were seriously in that relationship you would surely have a thought about why the fight happened..and if you are me you would think even more about what was the other person's perspective.. what could you have done so that it wouldn't have accelerated to this stage! What could be the areas you could improve in so that you could understand people better and have successful and better relationships and help them to help you become a better person :)
So basically fights help you look closer and deeper inside that person.. closer and deeper inside yourself and accept your flaws and other persons thought process.. They get you closer and more firmly bonded into this relationship and in the long term help you have a good and satisfied life :)
So, like "daag ache hein" in the same way, "Fights bhi achi hein" :D On this note, good night :)
Yes I know you are thinking this girl has gone mad! She thinks fights are good! How is that possible :P
But you know if you ask me.. I think sometimes fights are good..
You know when you have any relationship.. not particularly girlfriend boyfriend.. but any relationship for that matter.. you basically are sharing some part of your life through that relationship; you are sharing some part of yourself through that relationship..isn't it amazing how relationships can bring two strangers together! :D
Anyways, coming back to the topic, so yeah relationships do impact your life and who you evolve into in a big way!
If i see it, a relationship is a bonding between people with different thoughts and different mind set.. as we can be sure even identical twins don't have the same nature and thought process so yes! Two people are not exactly same! And because of the same reason i guess it is important to understand how the other person thinks, responds, feels...It gives a depth to relationships :)
And when you think about understanding the thought process I guess most of the times when we stay happy with other people, we are not exactly being ourselves.. literally! like there is always a part of us who is faking in some way or the other just to make the other person happy or what so ever the reason be :P
But when you have fights and all the truth comes out.. you get mad and unhappy and sad and literally think OMG! Why the hell am I in this relationship! Why me everytime! etc etc
You sleep over it.. you eat over it.. no matter how hard you may try still you were seriously in that relationship you would surely have a thought about why the fight happened..and if you are me you would think even more about what was the other person's perspective.. what could you have done so that it wouldn't have accelerated to this stage! What could be the areas you could improve in so that you could understand people better and have successful and better relationships and help them to help you become a better person :)
So basically fights help you look closer and deeper inside that person.. closer and deeper inside yourself and accept your flaws and other persons thought process.. They get you closer and more firmly bonded into this relationship and in the long term help you have a good and satisfied life :)
So, like "daag ache hein" in the same way, "Fights bhi achi hein" :D On this note, good night :)
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